世界上沒有意外
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大家是否认为这就是件坏的事、或坏的结果呢？还是说，这不一定是坏事哟。
希望大家都能珍惜与感恩每样上天的安排哦！
加油！
Friday, 24 February 2012
Sunday, 12 February 2012
【一封父親給女兒的遺書＆十年後女兒的回信】
《給可愛的”女兒”》：
爸爸和妳玩了好多次躲迷藏，每次都一下子就被妳找出來。
不過這一次，爸爸決定要躲好久好久。
妳先不要找，等妳十四歲(還要吃完十次蛋糕)的時候，再問媽咪，爸爸躲在哪裡，好不好？
爸爸要躲這麼久，妳一定會想念爸爸，對不對？
不過，爸爸不能隨便跑出來，不然就輸了。
如果還是很想爸爸，爸爸就變魔法出現。
因為是魔法，不是真的出現，所以不犯規，爸爸不算輸。
爸爸的魔法是：趁妳睡覺的時候，跑到妳夢裡大玩遊戲；
在妳畫圖畫爸爸的時候，不管好不好看，妳覺得是爸爸，就是爸爸；當妳拿爸爸的照片看時，爸爸也在偷偷的看妳......。
要記得，爸爸一直都陪著妳!妳已經是四歲的大姊姊了。
爸爸要拜託妳一件事，要妳照顧和孝順爺爺、奶奶和媽咪，看妳是不是比爸爸以前做得好？
有多好，媽咪會告訴你的。
爸爸猜想，我們這一次玩躲迷藏要玩這麼久，爺爺、奶奶、媽咪有時候看不到爸爸，他們一定會偷哭。
偷哭就是犯規、就是失敗。
他們偷哭，妳就要逗他們笑，不然遊戲輸了以後，他們一定會哭得更厲害了。好不好，寶貝？
我們是同一國的，來比賽看妳厲害，還是爸爸？
準備好了嗎，比賽就要開始了！
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《十年後”女兒”的回信》：
最愛的"爸爸"：
爸爸，我找到你了！
爸爸你知道嗎？
這些年，我很厲害唷，媽咪說我做得比爸爸你還要好呢！
爺爺、奶奶和媽咪犯規時，我都很努力的逗他們笑。
而且爺爺奶奶需要幫助時，我都有乖乖聽你的話。
爸爸......我是不是贏了？
不要擔心，我很勇敢。
因為我知道爸爸永遠都在我身邊看著我，
陪我哭、陪我笑、看我鬧彆扭。
你真的好厲害，你的魔法讓我變的很堅強，讓我變的更茁壯。
我很幸福，因為有爺爺、奶奶、你和媽媽陪著我！
我不孤單，爸爸也不會孤單，因為有我陪著你。
所以爸爸，你不用替我操心，我已經是個十四歲的大姊姊了，我已經懂事了。
爸爸你可以變作星星，在天上安心的看著我。
爸爸，我畫了幅畫，是我們全家唷！
你想我們的時候，就看著這幅畫，你想我的時候，我就變魔法，讓你在我們的夢裡來遊玩。
爸爸，我真的好愛你。
可惜比賽結束了...。
爸爸，我贏了......我是不是可以哭了...？
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很感人的故事吧？馆主想很多人都认同“直到失去后才懂得珍惜”这句话。但是，为什么在还拥有的时候我们不能够学会珍惜呢？如果能珍惜眼前人、珍惜当下，那么，很多的后悔都是不必要的。
学会珍惜吧！祝福大家！
^_^g
爸爸和妳玩了好多次躲迷藏，每次都一下子就被妳找出來。
不過這一次，爸爸決定要躲好久好久。
妳先不要找，等妳十四歲(還要吃完十次蛋糕)的時候，再問媽咪，爸爸躲在哪裡，好不好？
爸爸要躲這麼久，妳一定會想念爸爸，對不對？
不過，爸爸不能隨便跑出來，不然就輸了。
如果還是很想爸爸，爸爸就變魔法出現。
因為是魔法，不是真的出現，所以不犯規，爸爸不算輸。
爸爸的魔法是：趁妳睡覺的時候，跑到妳夢裡大玩遊戲；
在妳畫圖畫爸爸的時候，不管好不好看，妳覺得是爸爸，就是爸爸；當妳拿爸爸的照片看時，爸爸也在偷偷的看妳......。
要記得，爸爸一直都陪著妳!妳已經是四歲的大姊姊了。
爸爸要拜託妳一件事，要妳照顧和孝順爺爺、奶奶和媽咪，看妳是不是比爸爸以前做得好？
有多好，媽咪會告訴你的。
爸爸猜想，我們這一次玩躲迷藏要玩這麼久，爺爺、奶奶、媽咪有時候看不到爸爸，他們一定會偷哭。
偷哭就是犯規、就是失敗。
他們偷哭，妳就要逗他們笑，不然遊戲輸了以後，他們一定會哭得更厲害了。好不好，寶貝？
我們是同一國的，來比賽看妳厲害，還是爸爸？
準備好了嗎，比賽就要開始了！
***********************
《十年後”女兒”的回信》：
最愛的"爸爸"：
爸爸，我找到你了！
爸爸你知道嗎？
這些年，我很厲害唷，媽咪說我做得比爸爸你還要好呢！
爺爺、奶奶和媽咪犯規時，我都很努力的逗他們笑。
而且爺爺奶奶需要幫助時，我都有乖乖聽你的話。
爸爸......我是不是贏了？
不要擔心，我很勇敢。
因為我知道爸爸永遠都在我身邊看著我，
陪我哭、陪我笑、看我鬧彆扭。
你真的好厲害，你的魔法讓我變的很堅強，讓我變的更茁壯。
我很幸福，因為有爺爺、奶奶、你和媽媽陪著我！
我不孤單，爸爸也不會孤單，因為有我陪著你。
所以爸爸，你不用替我操心，我已經是個十四歲的大姊姊了，我已經懂事了。
爸爸你可以變作星星，在天上安心的看著我。
爸爸，我畫了幅畫，是我們全家唷！
你想我們的時候，就看著這幅畫，你想我的時候，我就變魔法，讓你在我們的夢裡來遊玩。
爸爸，我真的好愛你。
可惜比賽結束了...。
爸爸，我贏了......我是不是可以哭了...？
~~~~~~~~~~~~~
很感人的故事吧？馆主想很多人都认同“直到失去后才懂得珍惜”这句话。但是，为什么在还拥有的时候我们不能够学会珍惜呢？如果能珍惜眼前人、珍惜当下，那么，很多的后悔都是不必要的。
学会珍惜吧！祝福大家！
^_^g
Monday, 12 December 2011
Practising Gratitude for Daily Miracles
If there's one skill we all undoubtedly effortlessly excel at... it's taking things for granted.
Think about the daily miracles happening all around us... the air we're breathing, the clean water we're drinking, the technologies connecting us to our loved ones, or even that you're listening or reading this right now.
It's a cliche but only because we are so easily bored with what we have. It sounds mawkish and sentimental only because it's so easily available. But what if we didn't have them? Would we still think that being grateful for them was so trivial?
And it's not just the seemingly simple and common things in life... even things we initially find precious and thrilling lose their lustre after a time. This happens to everything from our cars to our partners. How quickly we grow weary of our blessings and start looking for other pleasures!
This tendency to tire of and find fault with what we already have is what keeps us discontented and unhappy. We're inclined to focus on our problems and ignore our blessings. But the very fact that you are walking, talking, breathing, tasting, and touching is a miracle in itself! We live in a world bursting with possibility and here we are complaining!
Life was meant to be savoured. Life was meant to be simple. Sure, it has its fair share of problems, but these are mitigated by its pleasures and joys. The reason why you are feeling all this pain and misery is that you have magnified the complexity of things.
External forces act on us now and then to test our faith and will. Would you really want to give in to confusion, chaos, and complexity... when all you need to do to be happy, is to see things simply, and revel in everything that's being revealed to you?
Most people are so busy waiting for miracles to happen that they fail to notice the ones occurring right under their noses. It's a bit like people who spend their lives hunting desperately for the partner of their dreams, while ignoring the ones who would gladly share their lives with them.
If we open up our hearts, minds and eyes, we'll be touched by the many miracles that occur everyday. Appreciate these daily events as the miracles that they are and they will increase the depth of your life.
Adapted from A Slice of Life by Eugene Loh
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是啊，很多时候，幸福和奇迹就在我们的身边，但是，我们都没有发现。多多欣赏和珍惜眼前的一切，你就会发现世界有多美好。
加油！
^_^g
Think about the daily miracles happening all around us... the air we're breathing, the clean water we're drinking, the technologies connecting us to our loved ones, or even that you're listening or reading this right now.
It's a cliche but only because we are so easily bored with what we have. It sounds mawkish and sentimental only because it's so easily available. But what if we didn't have them? Would we still think that being grateful for them was so trivial?
And it's not just the seemingly simple and common things in life... even things we initially find precious and thrilling lose their lustre after a time. This happens to everything from our cars to our partners. How quickly we grow weary of our blessings and start looking for other pleasures!
This tendency to tire of and find fault with what we already have is what keeps us discontented and unhappy. We're inclined to focus on our problems and ignore our blessings. But the very fact that you are walking, talking, breathing, tasting, and touching is a miracle in itself! We live in a world bursting with possibility and here we are complaining!
Life was meant to be savoured. Life was meant to be simple. Sure, it has its fair share of problems, but these are mitigated by its pleasures and joys. The reason why you are feeling all this pain and misery is that you have magnified the complexity of things.
External forces act on us now and then to test our faith and will. Would you really want to give in to confusion, chaos, and complexity... when all you need to do to be happy, is to see things simply, and revel in everything that's being revealed to you?
Most people are so busy waiting for miracles to happen that they fail to notice the ones occurring right under their noses. It's a bit like people who spend their lives hunting desperately for the partner of their dreams, while ignoring the ones who would gladly share their lives with them.
If we open up our hearts, minds and eyes, we'll be touched by the many miracles that occur everyday. Appreciate these daily events as the miracles that they are and they will increase the depth of your life.
Adapted from A Slice of Life by Eugene Loh
~~~~~~~~~~~~~
是啊，很多时候，幸福和奇迹就在我们的身边，但是，我们都没有发现。多多欣赏和珍惜眼前的一切，你就会发现世界有多美好。
加油！
^_^g
Wednesday, 7 December 2011
你是否曾想过放弃？
你是否也曾经想过要放弃？但是，在你以为的“不幸”中，你是否知道这世界有很多人在没有的境界中并不觉得自己有何不幸之处。相反的，他们更努力地过生活、活得比你我更精彩。
你还在那里自我怜悯着吗？
加油哦！为了自己的梦想努力前进！
^_^g
Saturday, 3 December 2011
Ten Commandments for Getting Along With People
1. Speak to people. There is nothing as nice as a cheerful word of greeting.
2. Smile at people. It takes seventy-two muscles to frown and only fourteen to smile.
3. Call people by name. The sweetest music to anyone's ears is the sound of his or her name.
4. Be friendly and helpful. If you would have friends, be friendly.
5. Be cordial. Speak and act as if everything you do is a genuine pleasure [make sure that it is].
6. Be genuinely interested in people. You can find something interesting about every person.
7. Be generous with praise … and cautious with criticism.
8. Be considerate of the feelings of others. It will be appreciated.
9. Be thoughtful of the opinion of others. There are three sides to a conversation/argument: yours, the other person's, and the right one!
10. Be alert to give service. What you do for others is important.
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馆主刚巧看到了这个，感觉我们大家应该学习如何与他人交往。
加油哦！
^_^g
2. Smile at people. It takes seventy-two muscles to frown and only fourteen to smile.
3. Call people by name. The sweetest music to anyone's ears is the sound of his or her name.
4. Be friendly and helpful. If you would have friends, be friendly.
5. Be cordial. Speak and act as if everything you do is a genuine pleasure [make sure that it is].
6. Be genuinely interested in people. You can find something interesting about every person.
7. Be generous with praise … and cautious with criticism.
8. Be considerate of the feelings of others. It will be appreciated.
9. Be thoughtful of the opinion of others. There are three sides to a conversation/argument: yours, the other person's, and the right one!
10. Be alert to give service. What you do for others is important.
~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
馆主刚巧看到了这个，感觉我们大家应该学习如何与他人交往。
加油哦！
^_^g
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