Tuesday 4 February 2014


Happy Chinese New Year! As we celebrate the festive and look at all the things to note for our zodiac sign, here's a quite meaningful post that explains the real meaning of the Chinese Zodiac signs and how they are paired up to express the hopes and wishes for future generations. 

Here's a quick infographic to explain it in a picture. 

P.S. It reveals the real secret to lifelong success.

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It was said that Mr Zhou En-lai was once having a meal with his European friends. 

A person by the name of Klaus passed an impolite comment when he was drunk. 

"You Chinese carry the signs of pigs, dogs, and mouse at birth. 

"I can't understand what's going on in the mind of your ancestors?"

At that point, the distinguished group of friends started to laugh. They started to toast each other rowdily. 

The cultured and serene atmosphere was broken. 

Some people believe that when someone insults your ancestors, even if you don't have a response to it, the least you could do is to overturn the table against him. 

Fortunately, nobody acted rashly or in violence. 

For a while, not a single word was uttered. It was probably because they have not come across this situation before. 

Then, Mr Zhou En-lai stood up and spoke to everybody in a calm and peaceful way.

"The Chinese ancestors were very wise. They arranged the twelve zodiac signs in pairs. Six pairs in a cycle.

In this way, they expressed their hopes and wishes for the generation that came after them."

By then, the room was in complete silence. There were some sceptical looks among the audience. 

Mr Zhou En-lai continued, " The first pair of animals is the rat and cow. 

"The rat represents wisdom and the cow represents diligence. Wisdom and diligence must operate in harmony.

"If there is wisdom but no diligence in applying it, it's foolishness. 

"On the other hand, if there is diligence but no wisdom, it's an act of folly. 

"That's why wisdom and diligence must go hand in hand. This is our ancestor's first wish for us. The first pair of animal also represents the most important hope.

"The second pair is the tiger and rabbit. 

"The tiger represents courage and the rabbit represents carefulness. These two qualities must work closely together. 

"In that way, it can have a better chance to achieve success.

"Without carefulness, courage becomes recklessness. Similarly, without courage, carefulness becomes cowardice.

"This pair of qualities is very important. That's why it is the second pair."

Mr Zhou En-lai looked at the audience and then he added, "Therefore, when we demonstrate our carefulness, please do not think that we do not have the courage to fight for social justice.

"In truth, what our ancestor is pursuing is wisdom through integrity, harmony and balance. It's never about a single hope or task."

When he saw that the audience was deep in thought, Mr Zhou En-lai continued, "The third pair is the dragon and snake. 

"They represent strength and flexibility. 

"Strength without flexibility becomes brittle. Without strength, flexibility becomes meaningless. 

"That's why strength with flexibility is an important lesson from our ancestor that has lasted through time.

"The next pair is the horse and goat.

"The horse represents the ability to gallop to success. The goat represents the ability to be considerate and have compassion. 

"If a person only looks after himself as he pursues his goal and with no consideration for others, he will face obstacles from the people around him. 

"Finally, he may not even be successful.

"However, if a person only looks after others and seek only to be amiable, he will not have a sense of direction. His goal will eventually be lost. 

"That's why the spirit of the horse and virtues of the goat must be applied in harmony with each other. This is our ancestor's fourth wish for us.

"The next pair is the monkey and the chicken.

"The monkey represents agility. 

"As for chicken, as there were no clocks in the days of old, it is needed to wake humans to start a new day. 

"The chicken represents stability. 

"The qualities of agility and stability must be tightly coupled together. 

"If you have agility but no stability, your best plan will not come to pass. However, if you focused on having stability and refuse to change, you will not have a better future. 

"When the two qualities are in harmony, on one side, there will be stability in terms of having, for example, effective system and collaboration. 

"On the other side, there will be a release of unrelenting creativity and innovation to achieve progress. 

"When these two qualities operate in synergy, it is one of the basic imperatives to achieve success.

"Lastly, we have the dog and pig.

"The dog represents loyalty while the pig represents good nature. 

"If a person is loyal but does not have a good nature, he will be blindly following others. 

"On the other hand, if he has a good nature but does not have loyalty, he will have no people and principles to guide him. 

"That's why whether its loyalty to a country, loyalty to a team, or loyalty to an ideal, you need to ensure that good nature is tightly coupled with and working alongside with it. 

"In that way, you can have a deep-seated sense of loyalty that comes from the heart. 

"This is why the Chinese believes that the outer core must be in alignment with the inner core (外圆内方,君子和而不同).

"At the inner core, we must have a pure heart that subscribes to high moral values. We must seek to live with ethos and positive principles. 

"We must live up to our words and not do anything that will harm others."

At the external core, we must be knowledgeable about the ways of the world. We must be wise in managing affairs around us. 

"We need to focus on what matters in life and not be influenced by evil. 

"We need to live with integrity and in harmony with others and the environment. We must not have any form of prejudice or seek to discriminate against anyone."

At the end of his speech, there was complete silence. They say that you can even hear a pin dropped.

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A very interesting and educational video suitable for all parents and childhood educators =)

Sunday 21 July 2013

別身在福中不知福!有錢人和窮人的生活!




 有能力的人就多付出一點,相對的沒有就珍惜感恩多一點。♥

Friday 19 April 2013

«慈悲没错,但要用智慧»

一个禅者在河边打坐时,听到挣扎的声音。睁开眼睛一看是,一只蝎子正在水里挣扎。他伸手把它捞上来,被蝎子竖起的毒刺蛰了一下。他把蝎子放到岸上,继续打坐。过了一会儿,他又听到挣扎的声音。睁开眼睛一看,蝎子又掉到水里了。他又把它救上来,当然又被蛰了一下。他继续打坐。过了一会儿,他又有了相同的不幸遭遇。

 旁边的渔夫说:“你真蠢,难道不知道蝎子会蛰人吗?”
 “知道,被它蛰三次了。”
 “那你为什么还要救它?” 
“蛰人是它的本性,慈悲是我的本性。我的本性不会因为它的本性而改变。”

 这时,他又听到挣扎的声音。一看,还是那只蝎子。他看着自己肿起来的手,看看水里挣扎的蝎子毫不犹豫地再次向它伸出手去。这时,渔夫把一个干枯的树枝递到他手上。禅者用这根树枝捞起蝎子,放到岸边。

渔父笑着说,“慈悲是对的,既要慈悲蝎子,也要慈悲自己。所以,慈悲要有慈悲的手段。” 

保护好自己,才有资格善待别人。 人们常说的一句话:“这年头,好人难做”。是啊,好人行善,是他的本性。但行善的对象却不一定也是善的;行善的结果也不一定是善果。为什么会这样呢?正如渔夫所言:“慈悲要有慈悲的手段。”

 “慈悲是对的,既要慈悲蝎子,也要慈悲自己。” 

实际上是在提醒我们:首先要对自己负责,才能真正做到对其他人负责。很难想象,一个连自己都照顾不好的人,怎么可以照顾好别人。保护好自己,才有资格,才有能力去善待别人。