Focusing More On Ourselves
Most of the problems in the world today stem from a fundamental malaise of Mankind that the centuries have not been able to cure. Our tendency to be overly-concerned about other people --- their flaws, their injustices, their immorality --- and not caring enough about our own weakness and what we can do about them.
Murder, racial and religious intolerance, revenge attacks, bomb blasts... these all have roots in our refusal to critically examine ourselves first before judging others. Leaders of the world continue to condemn these acts and the perpetrators continue to justify their behaviours, but we're no closer to resolving age-old conflicts.
The truth is, the world has always been torn by strife and clashes, civilizations rise and fall, good intentions get corrupted by self-righteousness, greed and power, and revenge continues to breed more and more revenge. In fact, the history of Man has been a history of repetition. We come, we conquer, we plunder, we use up, then go find some other place to feed our cravings or someone else to blame.
If we could all stop thinking about blaming others for our problems and begin to focus more on ourselves and our self-development, I'm sure the world would be a much better place. The problem with focusing on others is that it's a convenient distraction from our own flaws. While we're preoccupied with others, we don't have time to think about our own shortcomings and therefore don't have to do anything about them. It's a weakness of character, because it takes courage to look within, discover our own flaws and work towards improving ourselves.
If we want others to change, we must first change ourselves. We can only lead by example. This is as true of a parent and child relationships as it is with poitician and citizen, boss and subordinate, believer and non-believer. Nothing will make othes see our point of view unless we can prove just how clearly we see it ourselves. Whether you believe in God or not is a personal choice --- only you can see it, only you can feel it or not; you don't need anyone for that. And why should it matter to you how others think as long as it doesn't affect the way you think?
Starting now, try to shift your focus from other people onto yourself. Think about how you can be a better person. How you can reach for that deeper humanity in you.
As respected author and speaker Stephen Covey once said, "We immediately become more effective when we decide to change ourselves rater than asking things to change for us."
Adapted from 'A Slice of Life', presented and written by Eugene Loh
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馆主也同意作者他的说法。很多时候，我们都将我们的精力和时间注射在他人的缺点和错误上，而往往忽略了自己的不足。若要他人改，还不如先检讨自己，让自己先改进。
你们觉得呢？要加油哦！
^_^g
Murder, racial and religious intolerance, revenge attacks, bomb blasts... these all have roots in our refusal to critically examine ourselves first before judging others. Leaders of the world continue to condemn these acts and the perpetrators continue to justify their behaviours, but we're no closer to resolving age-old conflicts.
The truth is, the world has always been torn by strife and clashes, civilizations rise and fall, good intentions get corrupted by self-righteousness, greed and power, and revenge continues to breed more and more revenge. In fact, the history of Man has been a history of repetition. We come, we conquer, we plunder, we use up, then go find some other place to feed our cravings or someone else to blame.
If we could all stop thinking about blaming others for our problems and begin to focus more on ourselves and our self-development, I'm sure the world would be a much better place. The problem with focusing on others is that it's a convenient distraction from our own flaws. While we're preoccupied with others, we don't have time to think about our own shortcomings and therefore don't have to do anything about them. It's a weakness of character, because it takes courage to look within, discover our own flaws and work towards improving ourselves.
If we want others to change, we must first change ourselves. We can only lead by example. This is as true of a parent and child relationships as it is with poitician and citizen, boss and subordinate, believer and non-believer. Nothing will make othes see our point of view unless we can prove just how clearly we see it ourselves. Whether you believe in God or not is a personal choice --- only you can see it, only you can feel it or not; you don't need anyone for that. And why should it matter to you how others think as long as it doesn't affect the way you think?
Starting now, try to shift your focus from other people onto yourself. Think about how you can be a better person. How you can reach for that deeper humanity in you.
As respected author and speaker Stephen Covey once said, "We immediately become more effective when we decide to change ourselves rater than asking things to change for us."
Adapted from 'A Slice of Life', presented and written by Eugene Loh
~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
馆主也同意作者他的说法。很多时候，我们都将我们的精力和时间注射在他人的缺点和错误上，而往往忽略了自己的不足。若要他人改，还不如先检讨自己，让自己先改进。
你们觉得呢？要加油哦！
^_^g
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